woobydoo4
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 Steve- story-LOVE
My warm greetings to all the members of the site!
My name is Steve and I am from New Zealand.
You know my life became really hard at one period. Getting into a car accident I have become a disabled. I can walk and do a lot of things by myself, but that speedy life I led before was over. Thanks God I was working pretty hard before and have rather decent income from real estate.
So I was rich, disabled and lonely when I entered the world of net dating and read many articles about dating abroad and Russian brides.
Here my life was over, actually I did not meet any women who would like to spend her life loving and, unfortunately even caring of me (well, I had those people who work about the house and cook and drive and so on, but that was not a care I needed. That was hard at the beginning, but later I got used to the thought and even adapted to it somehow.
Internet has given me more chances and my bright sunshine has appeared in my life when I met Alexandra on matesmaster.com . She was from Lithuania, lovely woman and a mom of two children. She lost her husband nearly six years ago in a car accident to, so she was really supportive to me. Sasha knew I was disabled, but she did not know that I have a nice income; I told I am living on governmental support just not to attract frauds.
We started chatting and our chats lasted for hours, I was really wondering, she knew that it was almost impossible for us to meet, but still ran to the computer to meet me. She was different from those I met before, actually I haven’t met such a great lady even in reality. What I noticed was she’s always being careful when she wanted to say something to me, like “Can I tell u this? Can I ask u? Please, don’t get me wrong“and so on.
So we became friends. To tell you the truth, I have never had a close female friend in real life. I feel I want her to be my girlfriend, the closest friend of me. I feel I wanted to take care of her, to help her as she was thinking me as being poor and did not hesitate to share all her problems and difficulties with me because she was not afraid I would get her wrong.
I was keeping myself hard but then decided to visit her and to stop this tension of not knowing anything. At that moment I wanted to be with her, to hug her and kiss her everywhere as if she’s my baby, but was afraid to break everything, so just kept silence.
So I just told her that I am going to come to her to visit without explanations about where the hell I got the funds for that. I came, we met…and we are together as a couple since.
It's definitely not an ideal dating situation. Her vacations and sometimes weekends are the only time we can meet. When something wrong arises either with my health state or with her children, it's frustrating to only be able to discuss them in a phone call rather than put an arm around the shoulder and have someone to lean on physically. We haven't been able to do as much fun stuff as we would if we lived together as to go out for dinner and a movie. Earlier this year, the complications with my health left us with a six-month period when we couldn't get together at all (and she was crying all nights over and calling me all the time). We both hope that was the longest period we're apart for the rest of our lives. But I have no regrets about getting into this long-distance relationship; that was my chance and I took it, seems the same was with her (she still does not know how much I earn, let it be a pleasant surprise to her, my lovely little Sashenka star when she arrives here with her kids). I only hope it will be sooner that we were told.
So please cross your fingers for me and her and believe a man is not disabled when he feels himself healthy inside.
Thanks,
Steve.
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