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Re: Schiavo's Parents
In rec.sport.football.college Rod & Betty Jo <soggy@pacifier.com> sanoi, hitaasti kuin hämähäkki:
> "Dave Thompson" <abre@thedoor.comp> wrote in message
> news:114jgin1catu239@corp.supernews.com...
>>
>>> Maybe so or maybe not.....why wouldn't he respect his in-laws enough to
>>> go ahead and let his wife die in her own time without starvation.
>>
>> Because it's not what she wanted.
> Then prudence would have required something in writing....otherwise all we
> have is a he said /she said with suspect motives
>> Should your wife express the same to you without a living will, would you
>> let your in-laws interfere. I wouldn't.
> I'd grant my in-laws great latitude, when I married my wife I married her
> family as well...sharing worked pretty well
>> Because she's not there anymore. This is a ridiculous thing to claim.
> Whether a patient is physically suffering is not ridiculous at
> all......quality of life issues includes pain
>> Why not manage her settlement for
>>> her care instead of legal fees to kill her?
>>
>> There would have been no legal fees had her parents accepted the fact that
>> she was gone.
> Nor would there have been any if he devoted her settlement to her care.....
> next time I need hospitalization I'll see if I'll feel better paying a
> lawyer instead of a caregiver.
Heh. Those expenses were to defend against the in-laws
legal attacks against his care decisions. And nobody has
questioned the care he has given her.
>> And obviously, in the case of Schiavo's parents, it's no guarantee that
>> the parents won't act in their own self interest.
> They have yet to demonstrate anything other than love for their
> daughter......
Well, they have demonstrated it some by lying and some by keeping
very bad company (like Randall Terry), but yeah, in general, I
agree about their motives.
>> Her husband is the legal guardian. His decision is the only one that
>> matters as far as the courts and reasonable people are really concerned.
> Once he betraying his marriage vows and then embarked on a mission to kill
> his wife his custodianship should have been revoked...his judgment is beyond
> suspect. A neutral third party with no gain or loss would have been the best
> alternative.
Two of them were appointed. One of them questioned his judgement,
but it turned out that that guardian was withholding and falsifying
information so as to favor the inlaws, and even that guardian said
she was well cared-for.
>> Or that any and all should be above review or
>>> outside consideration......The Seattle guy whom locked his disabled wife
>>> in the hull of a boat for something like 10years does come to mind.
>>> Soggy
>>
>> I don't know why, it's not the same.
> It does aptly demonstrate spouses do not always put their disabled spouses
> self interest first....Soggy
No, but when you're married, it's the expectation that the
spouse will make this kind of decision. You know, leave
father and mother, like in Genesis, etc.
rich
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